Compulsive & Abusive Behavior

Recognizing Signs and Symptoms of:

Obsessive- Compulsive Syndromes

Substance Abuse

Eating Disorders

Physical and/or Psychological Abuse

Sexual Abuse

Many times in sports the areas that can be problematic for athletes, particularly young athletes are not black and white but multiple shades of grey. For instance, it can be very complicated trying to differentiate between an athlete who is “especially dedicated” and one who has an obsessive-compulsive disorder. Or, between a young women who “just wants to look her best” and one who is developing an eating disorder.

Even more complicated is differentiating between “toughness” and “strictness”, on the part of a coach, and abusive behavior; or between a parent who will not tolerate their child constantly wasting their time and taking advantage of them, verses the parent who cannot tolerate their child “not winning”.

Again, some of these things are merely unfortunate and counter-productive, and some require intervention of some sort. One may be just a case of “tough love” and the other “abusive.” When the signs or behaviors are obvious, such as a rapid, large weight loss, or regular “screaming and cursing” on the part of a coach or parent, or using humiliation as a motivator, it is clear that something is wrong. However, it is the “borderline” or subtle behaviors that lead parents, athletes, coaches, or others to wonder; “is it me, or is something wrong here”? This makes it difficult to know when to take action and even more importantly what action to take.

If you have observed something of concern, or something questionable, please feel free to contact us to discuss the issue in a safe and supportive, and confidential, (except in case of clear danger to self or others, see Privacy Policy), atmosphere. You will receive assistance to clarify and understand what is happening, and/or a referral if necessary, in order to provide the best solution for everyone involved.

For more information or to discuss needs, please contact us.